CATCHING A GUY IN HIS 30s

Many single men in their 30s lack intellectual depth or thoroughness when it comes to dating. Catching their attention is really tricky. Most guys this age are more interested in their work, hobbies, and friends. So here are some tips on how to magnetize that 30-something guy you've been crushing on. Do not act too eager or appear too desperate. Play it cool. Reverse psychology works most of the time. But, in the most refined way, you can drop hints that you are interested in who he is, and that you seriously want to get to know him better. Show the guy how exceptional you are. Build up your confidence. Men like confident and stimulating women who can run their own lives. Find out what you have in common, and try to get him involved in your own circle. If you love a certain kind of sport, ask him if he's into it as well. Looking for things to do that you can enjoy together can create a link that will eventually lead to something even more bonding in the future. Do not blab about the other guys you're interested in with your prospective man. This is a sure-fire way of making him uninterested. Being too candid might make him bored. One way to get a guy's attention is to keep him guessing on what's going to happen on your next encounter. Be mysterious, but don't overdo it. He might feel frustrated if it seems that he can't get through to you. Stand up for what you believe in. This will catch his attention and respect. Make sure you look neat and attractive. Guys are usually turned-off when they observe that a lady has been wearing the same clothes over and over, and with hair that looks as if it's always a windy day outside. Looking respectable can arouse a man's desire.